"Life is too fleeting to waste even one MORE sunset without the right lover by your side!"
Here's one way to say
goodbye to awkward blind dates, smoky singles bars, Internet
trolls, wasted time, endless lies, head games, useless
drama and dead-end flings forever.
by
Robert Goodman,
MBA, Author and Creator of
The Good-Man Methodology For
Efficient Love
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"As an experienced therapist, trained in the field of understanding human beings and the relationships they encounter, I find your Good-Man Methodology not only enlightening but also incredibly insightful to both laymen and professionals alike." Click to read more glowing reviews for Efficient Love... |
Are
you so frustrated by the dating process that you've
given up? Have you told yourself "there are no
good men left" or "all women are golddiggers?" Are
you constantly disappointed in the quality of single
people you're meeting?
Are you tired of investing weeks, months or even
years in pursuing a relationship...only to discover
major, irreconcilable, and discoverable deal killers
that had been lurking there since your first date?
Are you wondering how many times you will have to
start over? Wondering how old you'll be when
you finally find your soulmate?
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"If your goal was to be thought-provoking for your readers, you have completely succeeded - on every page of the book! "Once I began to devour the book's contents I could not bring myself to put it down, finding it compelling to read and easy to understand, but it doesn't end there!! Your concepts are amazingly applicable and something most all of us can truly utilize." Click to read more glowing reviews for Efficient Love... |
I understand - because I've been there. My name's Robert Goodman, and 14 years ago I decide that there MUST be a better, more efficient way to find love. I was divorced, with a punishing work schedule. Running multiple companies, I just ...
"Please excuse the
interruption—
but
I
have something important to tell you."
My name is Kathleen Hanover (yes, that's my real name). I’m a marketing and public relations consultant, and Robert hired me about a month ago to write the page you’re reading right now. It’s supposed to be a standard Web page for Efficient Love, a how-to book based on the process he used to find his own one-in-a-million soulmate.
But Robert will forgive me, I hope, for hijacking this space so I can share my own story with you and how The Method has changed my life…forever.
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"I've just
bought your book. I've read it TWICE! I found it really
appealed to my analytical side and I appreciated the thought
provoking questions it asked. "Another interesting development was that the clarity of my "quest" allowed me to end a prospective relationship after 3 dates, rather than mucking around in ambiguity for months. All are GOOD things - thanks again!" Click to read more glowing reviews for Efficient Love... |
I Told Robert, "No"
The week I contacted Robert about this writing project, I had just been through a disastrously disappointing dating experience. I'd met a man online, became infatuated via email, fell head over heels on the phone…and fell right on my (expletive deleted) when we met in person.
After weeks of excitement and anticipation, I cashed in all my frequent flyer miles to go meet my "dream man." And well…he was a man, but the whole experience was more of a nightmare than a dream.
I spent three agonizingly awkward days staring at a man I thought I knew…and wondering what had happened to the man I fell for on the phone. In the month before we met, the phone chemistry was so great that we spoke at least an hour every day! How could this man, in person, be so different…and so indifferent? How was it possible that we had so misjudged — and so disappointed — each other? Who was this guy?? And how could I have wasted so much time on yet another "dead end?"
So at the very time that Robert hired me to write this page for his web site, I'd had it (yet again) with relationships and dating! I had thrown in the towel (again). I had sworn off men and was back in “nun” phase (again). (Are you seeing a pattern here?)
Given my attitude at the time, I certainly wouldn't have hired me to help sell a book about love. I told Robert as much before the contract was signed! But I will always be grateful that he had a very different opinion. Robert told me that my recent dating disappointment made me the ideal candidate to market his book. In fact, he chose me — the cynical and jaded "nun" — out of two dozen writers competing for the job.
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"Mr. Goodman has a homerun with his Efficient Method! The captivating style makes Efficient Love impossible to put down. Immediately you're hooked and can't wait to fill out your own 3 lists: Profound, Profane and DIDO. An MBA is not the norm for a relationship book; however it is this unique combination that makes this book and the method work! Efficient Love would be useful to all of us, saving all that wasted time with dead end relationships, what an idea!" Click to read more glowing reviews for Efficient Love... |
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"A few years
ago, I found myself divorced after 17 years of marriage. I
tentatively entered the dating arena with very
unsatisfactory results. One night while searching the
internet yet again for information on relationships &
dating, I found Efficient Love and The Good-Man
Methodology...and my journey began. The happy
ending to our story would not have been possible without The
Good-Man Methodology. Click to read more glowing reviews for Efficient Love... |
Just One Tiny Problem
There was just one tiny problem. To do the best possible work for my client, I knew I'd have to read the darned book! Even worse, Robert insisted that I’d have to do Efficient Love — to apply it to my own love life — to really understand it. So, in spite of the fact that I’d just sworn off dating forever, I took the job. Robert talked me into it by agreeing to personally coach me in his Efficient Love process as part of our deal.
I'm a marketing copywriter—so believe me, I’m no stranger to hype. But I'm being completely serious when I tell you that this process has changed my life. It has changed who I am in a fundamentally positive way. How? Well…I'll tell you how in a minute…
But first, I'll admit that as an entrepreneur, it's not uncommon for me to work 50+ hours a week. So I understood that Efficient Love could really save me a lot of time…like the month I wasted on the latest Mr. Dead End. But what I didn't fully appreciate was how Robert's process was going to save me from so much potential heartache. And how it was going to change my life.
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"There are so many people out there who can benefit from your ideas and from your research and understanding of this quest for romantic love that we all seek. "I really am impressed by your clarity at uncovering the multitude of issues involved with love and relationships and the great way you have with your totally engaging writing style of clearly explaining the total process in this book. "Plus, it will help so many people avoid those 'dragons' you talk about - the ones that seem to constantly cause so many negative end results we all find difficult to change." Click to read more glowing reviews for Efficient Love... |
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"When you described each of The Nine Stages, I could feel the emotions I have felt in the past when I was in each Stage. In a few places, I could feel tears sting my eyes as I read... remembering past loves and lovers... and the endings of relationships. "I also enjoyed the light hearted tone of the entire book... even though the serious attention to the subject matter always came across." Click to read more glowing reviews for Efficient Love... |
So...Anti-Romantic!
And I can hear you thinking the same thing I first thought: "But 'efficient love' just sounds so…anti-romantic!"
And you're right. If you think low expectations, wasted time, self-delusions, heartbreak and chronic disappointment are romantic, then Efficient Love is definitely NOT for you.
But if you think finding the love of your
life, your soulmate…
your own perfect-for-you Hero or Heroine...
the person you'll wake up next to every day for the rest of your
life…
If you think that's too important
to be left to random chance,
then Efficient Love is exactly what you deserve.
Trust me, I understand. It may be hard to get your head around this concept at first. If you're an MBA and a business consultant like Robert, the idea of finding love efficiently makes perfect sense. But for the rest of us — especially those of us who've been brainwashed by romance novels and romantic comedies? Well, it takes some getting used to.
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"Bravo!!!! Your real life examples and truly touching self-disclosure add depth and interest and make it very easy for the reader to relate their own quest to your own. "I am certain that your Methodology and your book will benefit many of my own clients - and also that I am very anxious to enthusiastically explore and apply this Methodology to find out if my own hero is really out there!!" Click to read more glowing reviews for Efficient Love... |
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"As a Licensed Marriage Therapist and Professional Counselor, I have worked with thousands of people for over 25 years. All shared one thing: relationship concerns - either working on an existing one or searching for the right one, sometimes ending one. "Efficient Love by Robert Goodman addresses the issues of those who are seeking the right person without wasting time and energy on the same old path to Mr. or Ms. Wrong. It's natural to feel reluctant in figuring out how to find someone with whom to share your life. But Mr. Goodman's book outlines the perfect structure for an "approach plan." "In my professional opinion, the best thing we can do to achieve any goal, especially relationship ones, is to approach, never avoid. After reading Efficient Love, I think you will no longer feel shy or reluctant but will greatly benefit from the proactive methodology for seeking a lasting relationship which is so expertly outlined in Mr. Goodman's book." Click to read more glowing reviews for Efficient Love... |
He Refused To Let Me...
But no matter how I felt about my own dating experiences, I was determined to do a great job for Robert. So I picked up Efficient Love and read it with an open mind.
(And by the way, Robert actually refused to let me turn in my first draft until I had used The Method for myself. And having gone on my first Efficient Date two weeks ago, I'm now qualified to tell you about it. Details in a minute...)
Fast forward a few weeks…and I've gone
from
totally cynical about dating
to totally
serious about finding my soulmate,
thanks to Robert Goodman and Efficient Love.
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"The idea of creating very specific and personal pages for potential Soulmates to review is nothing short of genius! Everything you need to know from "marketing" yourself on the Internet to discerning sincere vs. false responders, is neatly compiled into one easy-to-read and understandable volume. "I used the principles outlined in the book and within five weeks had received over 600 qualified responses!" Click to read more glowing reviews for Efficient Love... |
Baby Steps
Efficient Love helps you break down the soulmate search into easy-to-understand baby steps. Robert's process systematically helps you figure out:
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Who you are and what you have to offer the right person
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What you want, need and deserve in the right mate
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How to find as many potential, close matches as possible
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How to quickly and efficiently evaluate potential matches once you've found them — in a way that's kind and positive for both of you.
I've discovered for myself how the Efficient Love process can
help you
quickly and efficiently
uncover deal-breaking
incompatibilities before chemistry and hormones and emotions
hijack your brain and your heart, and lead you into yet another
heartbreaking, going-nowhere-fast fling. You know, the kind of
romantic dead end that wastes the most important thing you have—precious,
irreplaceable time.
I hope you agree that saving time and saving heartache are reasons enough to order your own copy of Efficient Love.
But wait—as they say in the infomercials—there's more. To my complete surprise, the Efficient Love process has actually changed the way I feel about myself.
I'm a happier, more confident woman than I was before I read the book and started following The Method. I now truly believe, on a "soulular" level, that I deserve—and I’m capable of—a spectacular romantic relationship that will last me a lifetime. I now know in my heart that I don't have to settle just so I won't be alone on a Friday night. And thanks to Efficient Love, I actually have more to offer a potential match.
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"What makes you different from all the other relationship-book writers out there, and what ultimately convinces many people (including me) that you have a great approach, is that you have been able to innovatively use your MBA and many years of experience as a management consultant and business 'dragon slayer' to gain an amazing insight into everyone's quest for a Soulmate and what we are all actually doing when we search for love - essentially, you have successfully 'reverse-engineered' the entire relationship process!" Click to read more glowing reviews for Efficient Love... |
Thousands, Maybe Tens Of Thousands of Matches - Perfect For Me
I now believe that there are thousands…maybe even tens of thousands of individual men out there who aren't perfect…but who could be perfect for me – and I, perfect for them.
And while love is certainly magical and mysterious, finding my Hero is now simply a numbers game…a game I now have the tools to play and win.
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Have you become increasingly cynical with each brief, disappointing romance?
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Have you ever stepped on a heartbreaking conversational land mine during a first date?
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Have you thrown away months or years on a dead-end relationship because you don't think you can do any better?
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Are you just crazy busy, and pulled in a million different directions?
If you can answer any of these questions with a "yes," then I urge you to order a copy of Efficient Love for yourself.
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Stop wasting time on people who aren't right for you and never will be.
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Stop wasting energy on relationships that go nowhere.
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Stop wasting your life waiting for love to "just happen."
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And as Robert says, Don't Waste Another Sunset!
Get your copy of Efficient Love today. Get started today on your own path to "Happily Here & Now"…the one leading to the "Happily Ever After" you and I both deserve.
With heartfelt thanks to Robert…
and best of luck to you in your EFFICIENT Quest,
Kathleen Hanover
Executive Creative Director
Imagine That Creative, Inc.
P.S. Yes, Robert Goodman hired me to write his web page…but every word I'm saying is true and heartfelt. I was just looking for a marketing job! I didn't expect to find myself — and, most likely, my soulmate — in the bargain.
P.P.S. Efficient Love has changed my entire concept of the search for love. And, most surprising of all. Efficient Love — and coaching from Robert — have completely changed how I feel about myself. Forever.
P.P.P.S. Are you wondering how many more birthdays you'll have to spend alone? How many holidays? Are you ready to admit that what you're doing isn't working? Get your hands on a copy of Efficient Love today. And take charge of the rest of your romantic life.
P.P.P.P.S. Robert, you can have your page back now!
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"Thank you, Robert Goodman, for the Methodology and all the great ideas! Your life's quest for your own Heroine, and what you have already learned from your own experiences, has directly contributed to my finding my 'Happily Here and Now' and what I believe will ultimately be my 'Happily Ever After'!!!" Click to read more glowing reviews for Efficient Love... |
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"While acknowledging that there's a lot of emotion involved and chemistry required, you very clearly show that there is still room for logic, even when talking about love, of all things. "This, plus your step-by-step guidance to the reader about the need to be clear and comprehensive about what and who you want, the need to be assertive enough to communicate that information, the need to be honest in your intentions and emotions, and the need to understand the logic and procedure of how to meet new people (the theory of big numbers, marketing yourself, etc.) can make all the difference to your readers - and I know will lead to positive results for both myself and many others. "*This* is what's new and different - and what's not out there, anywhere, in any other book. Thank you!" Click to read more glowing reviews for Efficient Love... |
"It's Robert Again..."
I want to thank Kathleen for her efforts and also her willingness to share her very personal impact from learning and implementing The Method. I knew she would do a GREAT job on the page...and, after getting to know her and seeing her totally proactive adoption of The Method, I am equally certain Kathleen's Quest will be successful! (Want to see the up-to-the-minute status on her actual Quest? Read on...)
Like Kathleen, during the past few years, many thousands of visitors to my web sites have written me about how much The Method of Efficient Love has helped them in their own Quest to find the right person to accompany them on their path of Happily Here & Now that leads to their own unique destination of Happily Ever After.
Many of these readers have urged me to publish The Method in book format so even more people could benefit from these life and Quest-changing insights.
It is gratifying and humbling to know that The Method has already helped so many singles like Kathleen in such a positive, individual way. I am pleased to say that the book is now done and immediately available from Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and most every bookstore in the country.
My goal with the book is to give you at least one major epiphany, or insight, that will accelerate your Quest of finding your right Hero or Heroine as quickly as possible.
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"I've always thought of love as something that just happens... like lightening... and until I read your book, I never dreamed that there could be another way... a more logical and rational way... to cut down the pain and loneliness that inevitably follow the ending of a relationship when two people who had wonderful initial chemistry finally run into what you call a 'deal-killer'. Getting all my deal-killers out up-front seems like such a simple concept NOW... but lots of ideas seem obvious in hindsight." Click to read more glowing reviews for Efficient Love... |
Warning - Please Read This - Before Reading Efficient Love
I am totally serious when I say reading Efficient Love will permanently change you - and the way you will view every romantic relationship you have for the rest of your life. The really great news is that you will forever know how to keep from getting waylaid on your way to your vision of Happily Ever After.
However, if you are in a tentative relationship, or marriage, that is held together by only complacency instead of mutual contentment, beware the life changing impact of Efficient Love on your future.
Proceed with the reading of Efficient Love only if you are willing to realistically evaluate your current path and your vision of your personal Happily Ever After.
If you are willing to travel the path between where you are now and where you really want to be - if you are determined to do even the hard parts to make sure you have your own version of Happily Ever After - then Efficient Love is an absolute "must read" book for you.
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"As a result of absorbing and studiously applying the Good-Man Methodology, I am delighted to report that I have found my Soulmate! We connected instantly at our first meeting, are truly in love and planning a very long-term future together! " Click to read more glowing reviews for Efficient Love... |
100% Guarantee - You Risk Nothing!
I know The
Method works. It's worked perfectly for me and my wife
Janet. It has
successfully
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If you find that The Efficient Love Method does not give you at
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help your own Quest, just
contact me within 60 days of your purchase of the eBook, and ask for a
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My sincere wish is for you to find the Hero or Heroine who is perfect for you - and to find them as fast as possible. If my Efficient Love Method doesn't help you by giving you at least one major insight into your own personal Quest, I want you to ask for a full refund for your eBook investment. No explanation is necessary. You are under absolutely no obligation to keep the eBook if you're not 100% satisfied.
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Wishing you an efficient, successful Quest - and a gloriously inefficient happily ever after, with your own ideal Hero or Heroine,
Robert Goodman,
MBA
Author and Creator of
The Good-Man Methodology For
Efficient Love
P.S. You are the only person on Earth who can choose your right path to your ideal Happily Ever After. Choose wisely.
P.P.S. What are you
doing tomorrow at sunset? Who will be by your side tomorrow
- or one month, or six months, from tomorrow? How many more
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"Oops...It's me, Kathleen. Again...
P.P.P.P.S. Wondering about my first Efficient Date? He was attractive. Charming. Warm. And there was abundant sexual chemistry. Even so, thanks to Efficient Love, and Robert's coaching, I quickly identified a "deal killer" that would have ruined things for us down the road. So my first date with this very nice man was my last. But compared to how these things used to go…this was a completely successful dating experience. Because Efficient Love got me one step closer to my Soulmate.
P.P.P.P.P.S. Update: Wondering how my process is going? After two months using the Efficient Love methodology, I've received hundreds of emails, set up my website (www.MyHeroQuest.com) and shared my Facet Foreplay List with several dozen men—most of whom weren't right for me. But I discovered the "deal killers" very quickly and efficiently! I didn't get sidetracked, as I would have in the past, because Efficient Love gave me a road map to follow. And the great news is, I had a fabulous date for...well, see my site for details. But even if my date and I end up as "just friends," I still believe that someday soon I'll be enjoying Happily Ever After with a wonderfully imperfect man who is just perfect for ME. Thanks again, Robert!
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